The pitfalls of on-screen sex

This may be an unpopular opinion- but sex on our screens is always portrayed inaccurately and to the detriment of women... and here’s the unpopular bit - YES, EVEN IN “NORMAL PEOPLE” (the BBC romance)!

I can’t help but cringe as I watch the characters engage in a little hot and heavy smooching before stripping off all their clothes (either by themselves or for each other) and moving straight in to the whole penetrative shabang... no matter how much chemistry they exuberate or how “in love” they are.

Personally, I would be dry AF at that stage. And even if I was suitably moist, my vagina would unlikely be ready to jump straight open into receiving a whole human cock. Nah! Nope! Not for me. Not for me and my magical puss.

Up until a few years ago though, most of my sex was like this, even in my own masturbation practice. I didn’t realise back then how expansive and wonderful and ecstatic sex feels when my body is actually ready and open. In fact, and I’ve shared this many times before, when your yoni is fully ready, juicy and warmed up she will start sucking and drawing her love object in .

Sooooo, no need to force whatever object inside her with a bucket of lube... let’s actually never do that shit again!

Portraying sex without foreplay is like eating chips without sauce... DRY (that’s the best comparison I can come up with right now so please feel free to insert other examples of similarly dry experiences).

Maybe these shows don’t have time to tend to the needs of women and have her unravel and blossom like the glorious rose bud that she is... BUT YOU DO... solo or coupled.

So if you’re looking around ya and feeling like you must be not very sexual because you don’t wanna rip your clothes off and bonk your partner/ love interest the minute you see them, DON’T WORRY, HUNI!

Don’t let the little box fool ya... drag that sesh out like the delicious 10 course meal that you are.