THE POWER OF THE ANUS

Yes my loves, it’s time to introduce you to the forgotten sacred portal on that divine body of yours - the A Hole!

Often referred to only to insult each other with its dear name - it’s time to reclaim the power of the butt!

Anal play and ritual, when done carefully, consensually & consciously (the 3 C’s) can be so profoundly intimate, connecting, expansive & awakening - both solo and partnered.

The anus is most closely related to the root chakra- the energetic centre related to feelings of safety, security and being rooted and grounded both on this Earth and in our bodies. The root can be blocked by fear and insecurity. Anal practice is one of the most powerful tools I know for opening up the root chakra, which is essential the base of our entire energy source!

The level of care, attention and presence that is needed also brings about a deeper sense of embodiment through the intense sensations.

For those who find it hard to let go both in sex and in life - Anal penetration is the ultimate in the art of surrendering.

And whilst I don’t quite know the anatomy of this - what I do know is that anal orgasms are very real!

If you’re looking to explore either solo or partnered I highly recommend the Derrière Divine Anal Plug and a lotta lotta lube! You can get both in our shop.

Things to know:

• The anus can be incredibly tight and hold a lot of tension. Unlike the vagina the anus does not instantly soften and relax when aroused. The anus softens and relaxes through a regulated nervous system & then consciously relaxing the muscles and breathing deeply into the base.
  There are two rings in the anus; the first is the outer ring at the entrance and the second known as the sphincter ring is a few inches up. This is another internal ring of muscle which can be very painful if pushed against when the body isn’t ready. You may have had a penetrative experience where only the tip could go in before it was too painful - this would be the sphincter ring contracting.

• Go SLOWLY and consciously breathe and relax to ease in penetration. Because if you penetrate even a millimetre too soon, before the body is ready, the pain and shock is likely going to cause dis-regulation in the nervous system, the body will shut down and play time will be over.
  The relationship this cultivates with your body and listening to its signals is profound and can be unlike anything else!

• Don’t use the same toys or pleasure tools that you use in your vagina and definitely don’t share.
  Don’t use toys or pleasure tools that have no base. Unlike the vagina, the anus leads directly in to the intestines and so things can get lost in the body causing serious harm.
  Use lots of lubrication. The anus is not self lubricating so the more the better. If you feel a burning sensation during penetration you need more lube, that is your marker.

  
  And finally, ENJOY!

  
  Your body is a powerful portal for bliss, pleasure and ultimately divine connection. When we remove the unnecessary conditioning and taboo from a seriously sexually repressed society and replace with respect, safety & consent then your body is yours to explore!